Questions arise during pregnancy, and one of the most common is whether it is safe to have sex during pregnancy. If you are interested in sex and your doctor clears you for the activity, you can continue to have intimate relations while you are pregnant. Having sex while pregnant is normal and will not cause a miscarriage. A few women who have certain conditions may be ordered to refrain from intercourse, but your provider will discuss this with you.
Of course, you should always practice “safe sex” when engaging in sexual activities with new partners. That means using condoms during sexual contact whether or not you are pregnant. The last thing you want to do while pregnant is to contract a sexually transmitted disease or infection.
Safe and Comfortable Pregnancy Sex
During pregnancy, physical and hormonal changes can promote or curtail your interest in sex. If you are interested, there are several ways to make sure you feel comfortable with sex. The first thing to know is that the fetus is well protected by the uterus and amniotic fluid. It is extremely unlikely that sexual activity will injure the fetus. However, you may be most comfortable if you and your partner avoid putting pressure on your belly. Different coupling positions and pregnancy pillows can be used to ensure a safe experience.
Sex Drive During Pregnancy
Sex drive during pregnancy varies as hormones course through the woman’s body. Some women feel more sensitive and aroused due to increased blood flow to the uterus and genitals, while others feel the opposite of sexy. Anxieties about the safety of the baby can also affect a woman’s sex drive.
If your physical sex drive is minimal, remember that intimacy can involve other activities, such as massage, cuddling, and kissing. It may feel especially good to have your partner give you a back or foot massage, especially as you get closer to your due date.
When to Refrain from Sex During Pregnancy
If sex hurts you or causes bleeding, you should see your doctor to determine the cause. The cervix can sometimes bleed a little following penetration, so it may not be a concern. Ask your OBGYN.
Women with certain conditions may need to refrain from sex during pregnancy. Cervical incompetence, placenta previa, and premature delivery history may be reasons to avoid sex. Cervical incompetence is when the cervix begins to open before it should. Placenta previa occurs when the placenta partly or completely covers the cervical opening. Women with a history of pre-term labor and premature birth should talk to their doctor about sex during pregnancy and discuss safe activities, if desired.
When to Have Sex After the Baby Arrives
After the baby arrives, you will be focused on learning all the new things you need to do to care for your baby, such as nursing or bottle feeding. Sex may be the last thing on your mind. Eventually, you will wonder when you can have sex again. Most women who have a vaginal birth or C-section birth can resume having sex about 6 weeks after the baby comes. Use your judgment and discuss the timing of sex with your provider. If you aren’t feeling comfortable with sexual activity, talk to your partner about other ways to be intimate.
If you have other questions about what you can and can’t do while pregnant, visit our obstetrics FAQ.
For any questions you have about sex during pregnancy, contact your doctor at West Des Moines OBGYN Associates. No question is off-limits. We want our patients to be comfortable talking about all aspects of their pregnancies and the changes that take place during pregnancy. Make your appointment in West Des Moines, Ankeny, or Indianola today.
